Finally found the time and the right ambience to blog peacefully. These past two weeks have been one hell of a roller coaster ride. Loads of ups and downs. Loads of downs mostly, but oh well, I'll pick myself up in a jiffy.
Well, basically I learnt loads of things these week. And it can be summarised to:
1. The Importance Of Delegating
Being in many clubs and associations, as well as having posts in well... all of them, it is definately important to delegate your work. I found myself literally dying under all the pressure trying to keep my prefect reports and what knots up to date, make sure the Interact activity calendar goes according to plan as well as attending marching practice everyday. So a lil help from my vice was all I needed. And thank you so much Najwa for all your help. Truly appreciated. I feel like a whole sack full of worries and problems have been lifted off my shoulders when I delegated the work.
In the past, I was horrid at delegating work and doing group activities. I always find myself being the one to carry out the responsibility on my own. It was cos' of many lil reasons such as trust issues and being a perfectionist. In the past, I didnt really trust others when I give them jobs to do so I ended up doing most of it myself. I even had this weird slight fear that the font or size that the other person uses is ugly or messy. Oh yea, those good ol' perfectionist days. Glad its gone. The key to not having much stress and pressure is to DELEGATE. To delegate, you need TRUST.
2. During An Emergency, Drop Everything And HELP
The title speaks for itself. And I shall not elaborate here. Sensitive issue. lol.
3. We've gotta stop fighting like 5 days a week
Yet another thing I would not elaborate on here. Just that the person I love a lot, is the person I quarrel with the most. Why oh why? :(
4. Its Okay Not To Please Everyone.
This week was real shocking one too. I found myself saying no more often than usual. Oddly I feel much better. I'm kind of a people pleaser or basically I just can't say NO or if I'm unhappy about something, I dont usually voice it out. I just be pissed for the moment. And in 5 minutes, well, forgiven and forgotten. So yea, I stood up for my rights, my beliefs, opinions and myself X)
5. Even If You're Teacher Is A Bore, Don't Be Sarcastic
This is really depressing. Seeing how almost the whole class was making fun and throwing sarcastic remarks at our physics tuition teahcer just cos they wanted to go back early. I really feel bad for old people and they doing that to him is pure mean. Like come on la, no matter how boring he is or how much you dont understand or how much you dont wanna see another experiment cos the bell already rang, please dont yawn out loud with your smelly mouth or make a joke which aint funny but just pure mean. And sadly half the dumb ass class even laughed at the lame ass joke. Ask him to explain it again or something. I hate people who make fun or disturb old people. I have a soft spot for them. One day all this kiddos who laughed and especially the ones who made fun of him are so gonna get it thrown right back at their crap ass face. AHHH! So much of anger.
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